Each time one's eye gets bigger ,there is more loss in the vision to see the light.

Thats one of my favourite quotes, in life the more we believe in 'I' and focus on 'I' the more we lose touch with the bigger picture.
Christians- when christians use I in their lives, ' if I did not do this ,that will have happened, I , made sure, I made her, .... focus is list on who really made it possible using us, God.
Marriage- if one of the spouse in marriage find themselves using 'I' all the time, the other is slowly forgotten, is deemed not useful. I work, 'I'bring more money, that day I am the one who decided to .. the word 'we' is completely lost creating strain to the relationship.
Parents-As parents I want this done this way, I want this now, I, I ,I , the children's slowly become rebellious, its always 'the' way
True in all areas of life, work, manager ....