Jerry Kreuser's Blog (12)

People change over time. What we fail to realize is that the only way that we can grow is if we change. So, instead of complaining we should adapt and find ways to strengthen our relationship with our significant other. http://bit.ly/1MTLVfg

How do you define a “soul mate”? Is it somebody we share a special bond with? Is it the one man or woman, as cliché goes, who is “destined” to walk life’s smooth or bumpy road with us? What is your concept of soul mate? Do you believe you can have just one or can there be more than one happily ever after? http://bit.ly/1FCn6EN

Everybody fights. Every relationship has it, so we may as well learn how to fight fair if we are going to have arguments with our partners. The first thing you and your partner should do is to establish some ground rules even before you get into a fight. http://bit.ly/1PlObfJ

Look, there is no such thing as soul mates. There is no such thing as love at first sight. And, there is certainly no such thing as a perfect relationship. You may spend a lot of time looking for the perfect person, but no matter how hard you look you may never find him or her. So, stop living in the fairy tale world that you made up in your mind. Stop thinking that there is only one person in the world for you, and stop thinking that your love life is going turn out like one of those…

Yes, yes and yes. Arguing is a natural part of every relationship. One positive way to look at it is that arguments actually iron out the differences couples have in a relationship. In fact, compared to a couple that never argues, couples who get into arguments tend to know each other better because they will learn to give room for each other’s quirks. Arguments also give you the chance to reassess the relationship you have with your significant other and help you decide if she is the one.…

Is it still cheating if your spouse wants you to do it? I want to hear your opinions. http://bit.ly/1JIKBHR

Is there sex after marriage?

Your sex life is great when you are newly married. In fact, you probably have sex more often than rabbits. Then as years passed, you notice a change. Your sex life isn’t the same as before. You’re not having sex with your spouse as often as you want to, and you start to wonder what’s wrong.

There’s this joke that you should take a jar and put a penny in it each time you have sex during the first year of your marriage. Then you should take one penny…

Is three a crowd or a party? Well, if sex is fun, then being in a threesome has to be double the fun, right? It can be a great experience for some, and it can turn out quite bad for others. This is the dream of countless men around the globe. Don’t try to deny it guys. Men everywhere longed for the day that they might have two women at once, and that’s no secret at all. However, there is a huge difference between reality and your sexual fantasies. You need to choose your partners wisely. And…

Is cheating justified if you are not treated right by your significant other? The answer is not as easy as it sounds. Yes, cheating is frowned upon by the public. Most people would say, “You shouldn’t cheat on your spouse, it’s not right”, and condemn it out of hand. But what if your spouse is abusing you? What if he’s beating you up? Is cheating moral in these cases? What if you and your spouse no longer speak, touch, or connect in any way? Wouldn’t you look for intimacy…

So, when does sexual attraction stop and relationship begins? Is it possible for a relationship to last without sexual attraction?

In my humble opinion, sexual attraction does not stop when your relationship with someone turns into love. It just doesn’t stop once the other one begins since it is not the basis for the other one to exist. Sexual chemistry is actually extremely important in a relationship. Sure, love may hold a relationship together, but sexual chemistry keeps it alive.…

Can you tell the difference between lust and love?

Well, lust is all about SEX. Lust is when your genitals seize control of your brain and make you feel this intense physical attraction to someone. It makes you feel the need to get that person into the sack so you can do the things you fantasized about with her. Sexual attraction and desire = lust. It is our primal urge to procreate. Picturing someone naked and imagining yourself doing things to her is lust.…

“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” – Yeah, we’ve all heard that one before. It posits a subjective interpretation of physical attractiveness. Basically, it means that each individual person see beauty different than the other. Read more about it here at http://www.thewinetastersaffair.us/what-makes-someone-attractive/