7 New Year's Resolutions to Increase Happiness in Your Marriage (or Committed Relationship)

1. Tell your partner that you love him/her at least once every day. Don't assume that your partner knows it. Even if your partner shows signs of embarrassment and denies that they need to hear it. Don't believe it. Do it anyway.

2. Kiss your partner at least once in the morning and at least once before you go to bed in the evening.

3. Plan a date night at least once a month where you do something fun. During the date, talk about each other and your interests, not the kids or your family.

4. Swallow your pride and put your ego behind you when you know you are wrong. A simple apology will go a long way toward building goodwill and allowing forgiveness.

5. Communicate not just in words but in actions. Communication can happen nonverbally. Do loving things for each other. Leo Buscaglia advised, "Put your feelings into action. Make that favorite food. Send the flowers. Remember the birthday or anniversary. Create your own love holidays to celebrate--don't just wait for Valentine's Day."

6. In the next week or two, find some quiet time to talk about your individual and family goals for this coming new year. What part do you want your partner to play in supporting or obtaining those goals?

7. ADD YOUR OWN RESOLUTION TO SHARE WITH OUR READERS--The best idea will win a box of chocolates and a 2008 Love Renewed Calendar. (post at www.loverenewed.net)

2007 Copyright. Eliz Joyner

Author: Love Renewed: Looking into the Heart and Soul of the One You Love