on the outside of an abusive relationship, looking in

"On the outside of abuse looking in"
Seeing a loved one being abused in a simple situation that we all can turn into a drastic one is sure torment. We can give all the suggestions as to what the abused should but they are the only one that can make that decision. Even though the threat has been a verbal one, I'm on pins and needles every second of the day and night. It is not only their life that may be at stake, mine and my familes life may be also. Our lives and privacy has been exploited for no real reason. The only reason is that the abused ( My Child) decided that they would move out and move in with me because she was tired of struggling. Her non-Working supposed to be boyfriend is mad with her because he knows that the free ride is coming to a screaching halt and, he hates my whole family. I'm afraid for my child and all of us. Although I know that i'm not the only one that is or have been in this situation but right now if feel that "Nobody knows the trouble that I see". Please send out your heavenly prayers over the air waves for safety and a break through