The Psychological Impact of being a Careiver

https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/my-life-with-cancer-carolyn-whitfi...

More than likely, we have all been in love.  The feeling that makes you truly believe that you can overcome any and all obstacles.  But what happens to those feelings when a diagnosis like cancer enters the playing field?  In a new relationship, do you choose to stay or go?

I met my late husband in 2014 and after a few months of dating, I faced this scenario.  He was diagnosed with an incurable cancer, Multiple Myeloma.  I chose to stay and endured a living hell that I am still surprised at my survival.  Does leaving someone at the beginning of a new relationship make you a bad person?  In retrospect, I would say no.  

My book, "My Life with Cancer", reviews the sense of loss that was experienced with my father and the emotional roller-coaster that my late husband and his family put me through.  My perspective has changed significantly.  If I had the opportunity to stay or go again, I think that I would choose to go.

Do any of you have any experiences like this?