Jerry Kreuser's Blog – September 2015 Archive (5)

How do you define a “soul mate”? Is it somebody we share a special bond with? Is it the one man or woman, as cliché goes, who is “destined” to walk life’s smooth or bumpy road with us? What is your concept of soul mate? Do you believe you can have just one or can there be more than one happily ever after? http://bit.ly/1FCn6EN

Everybody fights. Every relationship has it, so we may as well learn how to fight fair if we are going to have arguments with our partners. The first thing you and your partner should do is to establish some ground rules even before you get into a fight. http://bit.ly/1PlObfJ

Look, there is no such thing as soul mates. There is no such thing as love at first sight. And, there is certainly no such thing as a perfect relationship. You may spend a lot of time looking for the perfect person, but no matter how hard you look you may never find him or her. So, stop living in the fairy tale world that you made up in your mind. Stop thinking that there is only one person in the world for you, and stop thinking that your love life is going turn out like one of those…

Yes, yes and yes. Arguing is a natural part of every relationship. One positive way to look at it is that arguments actually iron out the differences couples have in a relationship. In fact, compared to a couple that never argues, couples who get into arguments tend to know each other better because they will learn to give room for each other’s quirks. Arguments also give you the chance to reassess the relationship you have with your significant other and help you decide if she is the one.…

Is it still cheating if your spouse wants you to do it? I want to hear your opinions. http://bit.ly/1JIKBHR